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Fairly short manual for life in China

- Thursday 31 January 2008

Living in China is not the same as living in the West. While deep down, people share the same prime characteristics - need for love, need for food, need for shelter, need for God – the way they express these may not always be the same. For foreigners living in China, there is suddenly a whole set of rules that you need to learn:

  • What do you do with your chopsticks when you’re not eating?
  • What should you take when you are invited to dinner?
  • Why do Chinese women wipe bus seats?
  • Why can’t I simply ask someone to help me?

This set of rules provides some principles and thoughts. It could be much longer. However, we hope it will be a useful short-hand for anyone hoping to go on a Summer team, or for a longer experience.

If you have any other ideas, feel free to add comments at the bottom of this page.

TABLE OF CONTENTS

GREETING AND GIFTS

  • Greeting guests
  • Receiving gifts
  • Suitable presents
  • Gifts for a meal
  • Saying ‘No’ to requests

 

 

SHOPPING AND MONEY

  • Money.
  • Dealing with money
  • Change and ATMs
  • Bags and backpacks
  • Tea gardens
  • Shoe shining
  • Overcharging

FOOD

  • Chopsticks
  • Entertaining
  • Finishing a drink
  • In a restaurant
  • The big entrance

HEALTH AND HYGIENE

  • Toilets
  • Wiping
  • Water

 

 

PEOPLE AND RELATIONSHIPS

  • You are not Chinese
  • Guanxi
  • Group Culture
  • Relating to a teacher
  • Using a middle person

 

CLASSROOM BEHAVIOUR

  • Exercising self-control
  • First Impressions
  • Language
  • Noise
  • Exams
  • Marking

CONVERSATION

  • Talking with strangers
  • Talking about home
  • Pointing
  • Smiling
  • Thank yous
  • Facial expressions

 

 

ODDS AND ENDS

  • Clothes
  • Feet
  • Traffic
  • Haircuts
  • Massage
  • Compass
  • Phoning
  • Beggars
  • Getting unlost

CASE STUDIES

  • What’s the point of dinner?
  • Dressing for Television
  • When the bus misses you
  • Shouting out of character
  • Last-minute request

If you prefer, you can download the entire file here (248KB)

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